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I Don’t Know How All of Us Can Recover

Deborah Kristina
2 min readSep 9, 2022

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I don’t feel motivated to have a romantic partner.

I speak about my own life when I say that I have never met a man who has spoken to me like I know anything.

Why do I keep meeting men who think they know better than me about everything is not something that can be explained.

Just a harder tone of voice makes me see red.

I have become bad-tempered over the years from encounters that I didn’t wish to receive.

I only speak from my own perspective when I say that I honestly don’t see that men treat women well and I don’t understand why. I have not grown up in an environment where men have treated women like they have any value.

I can’t help but let my observation of unemployed men and men who are in unstable employment around me affect how I see them. I am not one to generalize a group of people but I sincerely admit once again that I have never met a nice man.

I write this not to discourage anyone from dating but to see if anyone else knows what I mean.

Has it ever felt like every person that you have gone out with has hurt you in the end?

Has it felt like you can’t meet one decent person?

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Deborah Kristina
Deborah Kristina

Written by Deborah Kristina

Author of ‘A Girl All Alone Somewhere in the World’, ‘Confessions and Thoughts of a Girl in Turkey’, ‘From Just a Girl Grown Up in America’. (Amazon.com)

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