I Feel A Lot And Don’t Know What To Say

Unsplash — Adam Cybulski

I understand that people are turned on by different things (quite often beyond our imagination).

I have a hard time accepting, though, feeling aroused by bruises and black eyes.

How puffy eyes and sobbing and infected wounds arouse some is a mystery to me.

When it comes to the point when one partner is in pain and unhappy,

then the other partner should cease hurting their supposed loved one.

Physical pain can enhance a sexual experience but once one person is emotionally harmed,

then there is no longer an intimate connection; no connection exists at all at this point.

I can’t understand how one can go through having sex with someone when the other person

is screaming and begging for the moment to stop. When I read about rape and sexual assault

cases involving high school and university students, and others, I can’t comprehend how the perpetrator(s) often get away with what they have done. It’s incomprehensible how some men

feel any pleasure at all when they force themselves on someone; it’s beyond my understanding how such incidents last quite a while with the victims resisting or not conscious; I can’t fathom how there has been no remorse at times…