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Went Out with Other Men While Still Married

Deborah Kristina
3 min readDec 1, 2021

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Remember:

We have this one life to live it in the best way we can.

I remember when a 48-year-old lady I used to talk to criticized some of the women that she knew who went out with other men while still married (and even when they had children).

I didn’t feel that she had the right to speak maliciously of those women.

I’m a forgiving and understanding person.

I also see a bit of myself in the women she spoke of (yes, I’ve never been married and I have no children, but I understand meeting people of great interest to me and moving on when people I was acquainted with made me unhappy).

Sometimes, in life, we meet people and we may stay in touch with them until destiny has us not stay in touch anymore.

We may live with people for a certain amount of time until, again, destiny has us not live together anymore.

Every human life comes in phases.

Every human life comes with errors and people coming and going.

I believe that when we are unhappy with someone, then the friendship or relationship should no longer be.

Certain people are meant to enter our lives.

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Deborah Kristina
Deborah Kristina

Written by Deborah Kristina

Author of ‘A Girl All Alone Somewhere in the World’, ‘Confessions and Thoughts of a Girl in Turkey’, ‘From Just a Girl Grown Up in America’. (Amazon.com)

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